Pain

"Some of the deepest wounds we endure in our lives come at the hands of those we love and who love us most. Contrary to the notion that there might be two categories of relationships—those that help and those that hurt—experience teaches us that intimacy inevitably invites injury." (http://www.relevantmagazine.com/life_article.php?id=7351)

maybe I'll write more of my thoughts on this later. It feels so true though....